The Censored Life of Shaya Goldust: “The streets of the city were tunnels of terror”

In my opinion, it cannot be a temporary feeling, but if a person is allowed to live in the form of a new gender in the right environment and test himself and get to know himself more correctly, he will naturally get better results. For example, from a scientific and psychological point of view, it is necessary for a person to wear the clothes of the new gender and appear in the community with the new gender for some time before the surgery, so that the people around him will accept him. Go to a party with new clothes, shop in stores, and communicate with others in the community, and decide after a while whether it fits into the new clothes or not; whether he is comfortable with the gender he is going to have after the surgery or not; and has it been what it wants to be? But they don’t usually have this space in Iran, so in order to get all these, the first and easiest thing that they think about is surgery, but maybe there is no need for some people to go to the stage of surgery. In free societies, every person should not physically change himself because of the behavior of the opposite!But because in this country there is no space to be one’s true self, one must change to one of the two sexes, male or female, and in fact, it is the wrong law and an ignorant society that push some of these people to have surgery. Perhaps if society and the law were more acceptable to them, they would not have committed this heinous act and could have lived comfortably. Being in the right context can help you make better, more informed decisions. The tests that are usually taken are personality assessment tests that may be used for any person of any gender.

December 19, 2022 | 9:04 pm