15 Red Flags That Could Mean Your Partner Is Trying to Destroy Your Self-Esteem

They re-check or re-do the things that you’ve already done

Repeatedly double-checking or redoing tasks you’ve already completed can send a message that your efforts are inadequate. While occasional validation is acceptable, constantly second-guessing your actions can erode your self-confidence. Your partner should trust in your abilities and show appreciation for your efforts rather than casting doubt on your capabilities.